I feel like the term has more become a term for someone who's not quite femboy but not quite average dude. Or something like that, I can't put into words concise enough to properly explain it.
Like some random girl in a middle school with green hair? I totally get what you're saying now. A girl has green hair and we call them a Twink. But that dosent mean she's actually one. I see what you're getting at now.